Post by Phoenix on Jun 15, 2014 19:26:48 GMT
Hi every one
Ive been dealing with a lot of overt abrasiveness and rudeness from my parents and siblings. This behavior has been lifelong, and furthermore unexplained. For example, if their all in a room talking or watching a movie often theyll sigh and sometimes even pause the movie or leave the room. Recently we went on a trip to visit my granddad in South Carolina (he has cancer) and they got agitated with me and said amomgs themselves " why did she have to come anyway?" I've tried to calmly ask them why they treat me this way, and often they'll tell me to "stop bothering them/ fuck off/etc" and even when I keep quiet and try not to interact with them they say rude things. My 17 year old sister openly calls me a slut because I'm a feminist ( sad but true) and my parents condone it. I was sexually abused by a male relative during my childhood and my PARENTS ARE AWARE OF THIS YET BASICALLY DID NOTHING TO STOP IT. often when I retaliate they put the blame on me. I'm tired of being treated like garbage and I've even thought about becoming an escort just so I can get out of my parents house ( I don't have my own car or enough money to move on my own. im a college student (community college) & I work part time but its not enough to get me in my own apartment. I'm 23 by the way. my parents are currently finalizing a nasty divorce (my mom cheated on my dad with 4 different men). She's been drinking a lot lately and sometimes asks me for my money that I make from work. She lives out of a rented hotel room with her boyfriend, yet they refer to ME as a slut. Does anyone here have a similar family ordeal/abusive situation and if yes then how did you overcome it? I could really use the advice.
Thanks and much love
- Phoenix
Ive been dealing with a lot of overt abrasiveness and rudeness from my parents and siblings. This behavior has been lifelong, and furthermore unexplained. For example, if their all in a room talking or watching a movie often theyll sigh and sometimes even pause the movie or leave the room. Recently we went on a trip to visit my granddad in South Carolina (he has cancer) and they got agitated with me and said amomgs themselves " why did she have to come anyway?" I've tried to calmly ask them why they treat me this way, and often they'll tell me to "stop bothering them/ fuck off/etc" and even when I keep quiet and try not to interact with them they say rude things. My 17 year old sister openly calls me a slut because I'm a feminist ( sad but true) and my parents condone it. I was sexually abused by a male relative during my childhood and my PARENTS ARE AWARE OF THIS YET BASICALLY DID NOTHING TO STOP IT. often when I retaliate they put the blame on me. I'm tired of being treated like garbage and I've even thought about becoming an escort just so I can get out of my parents house ( I don't have my own car or enough money to move on my own. im a college student (community college) & I work part time but its not enough to get me in my own apartment. I'm 23 by the way. my parents are currently finalizing a nasty divorce (my mom cheated on my dad with 4 different men). She's been drinking a lot lately and sometimes asks me for my money that I make from work. She lives out of a rented hotel room with her boyfriend, yet they refer to ME as a slut. Does anyone here have a similar family ordeal/abusive situation and if yes then how did you overcome it? I could really use the advice.
Thanks and much love
- Phoenix