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Post by belladonna1983 on Sept 27, 2014 14:37:08 GMT
Can y'all please help me figure out why Beyonce isn't sexy, even though she peddles sexuality to is 24-7?
She just isn't truly sexy....she's beautiful, and SEXUAL, but robotic and unlifelike....
She doesn't even seem lovable, to be honest.
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Post by nicki on Sept 27, 2014 16:08:58 GMT
I agree. I have always thought she was a pretty woman with a great body but there is nothing sexy about her. Now Rihanna on the other hand is sexy as hell. I hate the fact that she's had so much success with so little talent but that's just an indication of how much music sucks right now.
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Post by shanaelmsford on Sept 27, 2014 21:56:26 GMT
I think that Bey doesn't exude genuine sexual energy because she's not in touch with her own sexuality in an authentic way. She's a copycat and a mimic. She jumped on the ho bandwagon because that's what her biggest competitors are doing and she didn't want to be left behind. She may be truly asexual or she may just be an extremely repressed woman trying to play keep-up with people who are more grounded in themselves. Even a geriatric thot like Madonna is more believable than Bey - not just because she's been at it centuries longer but because she owns how gross she is.
What's interesting to me is that some people have tried to compare her latest album to Janet's 5th album. There are a few surface similarities (both are self-titled, both have songs that are more openly sexual than their previous albums) but the biggest difference is how their sexuality has been harnessed in relation to their music. That picture of Rene Alizondo cupping Janet's bare breasts is sexual, no doubt, but because of the look of serenity and control in her face it gives a very different energy than the sloppy desperation that comes from Bey's new "sexyness" in photos and videos. Janet also wasn't raunchy just for the hell of it. Even if people thought that some of the lyrics were inappropriate ("If", "Anytime, Anyplace", "That's the Way Love Goes") most of them would still conceded that the words were chosen for something deeper than shock value or trying to keep up with her biggest competition.
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Post by missy on Sept 28, 2014 0:30:44 GMT
I think she's bisexual. I mean, I can't say whether or not bisexual is or isn't sexy since that's not my cup of tea, so no shade to any bisexual women. But, I've witnessed most bi women give off similar vibes as her. She posed for OUT mag on that feminist movement, there were and still are rumors about her and her former band member, where there's smoke, there's fire. Then the gay Camel rumors, which if true would make her to be a beard. I mean, I wouldn't be shocked really, money drives this woman.
I think this is all behind the asexualitywoman mentioned here. She's spent so much time maybe being who she's not....that's hard under any circumstances.
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Post by belladonna1983 on Sept 29, 2014 1:01:01 GMT
"think that Bey doesn't exude genuine sexual energy because she's not in touch with her own sexuality in an authentic way. She's a copycat and a mimic."
THIS.
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Post by eljjai on Sept 30, 2014 7:23:02 GMT
Honestly I think Beyonce has abused her sexuality and cannot confront what she has done and therefore disengages from it on a deeper level while pussy popping for the world to see. Like how old strippers or prostitutes end up just tired of it all and so jaded. She's been passed around for years, she's used sex to get hits etc etc. now being genuinely sexual holds no appeal to her. Another thought is that her sexuality development has been stunted by abuse. She often has a very juvenile sense of sexuality, like how teenage girls think their cleavage can move mountains. When in fact there's so much more to being sexy than having a great body. That why she's photoshopping thigh gaps and getting lipo'd to make them real. Abused girls are often hyper sexual. They learn quickly that their worth is in their body and to hell with the rest (mind, soul, etc etc) She gives off that vibe.
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Post by missy on Sept 30, 2014 14:32:06 GMT
Honestly I think Beyonce has abused her sexuality and cannot confront what she has done and therefore disengages from it on a deeper level while pussy popping for the world to see. Like how old strippers or prostitutes end up just tired of it all and so jaded. She's been passed around for years, she's used sex to get hits etc etc. now being genuinely sexual holds no appeal to her. Another thought is that her sexuality development has been stunted by abuse. She often has a very juvenile sense of sexuality, like how teenage girls think their cleavage can move mountains. When in fact there's so much more to being sexy than having a great body. That why she's photoshopping thigh gaps and getting lipo'd to make them real. Abused girls are often hyper sexual. They learn quickly that their worth is in their body and to hell with the rest (mind, soul, etc etc) She gives off that vibe. Great points!
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Post by shanaelmsford on Oct 1, 2014 1:38:40 GMT
Honestly I think Beyonce has abused her sexuality and cannot confront what she has done and therefore disengages from it on a deeper level while pussy popping for the world to see. Like how old strippers or prostitutes end up just tired of it all and so jaded. She's been passed around for years, she's used sex to get hits etc etc. now being genuinely sexual holds no appeal to her. This is another possibility. I'm sure you've all heard the rumors about Matt using her and the rest of DC4 to close deals when they were teenagers. I think she even mentions being a "closer" in one of her songs. She's performed for 2 presidents with back-to-back terms, greedy corporations (Walmart), and a greedy, brutal dictator. It's always possible that there were private "shows" after the public shows, IYKWIM.
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Post by Guest XXX on Oct 14, 2014 5:31:07 GMT
Well, my opinion is it's because her "sexy" is so forced. So when you combine all the aggression, with her trying so hard and looking stoopid for trying so hard, then add in how forced all of that is, then all you can do is wait til she sits her ass down somewhere and catch her breath. Besides desperate, that woman is cray cray.
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Post by enlightenme on Oct 14, 2014 9:53:15 GMT
Because she is portrayin to be someone that she really is not...I would not be afraid to bet behind close doors Beydummy is embarrassed by all of the p$ssy poppin and gyratin that she does on stage...IMO she is no more than a high priced stripper courtesy of her pimp of a husband JayCamelback...And yes she do look stupid by tryin way too extra...This is why she need to get out of the spotlight for a while and find who she truly is because as of now she has no clue
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Post by nicki on Oct 14, 2014 19:37:50 GMT
Well, my opinion is it's because her "sexy" is so forced. So when you combine all the aggression, with her trying so hard and looking stoopid for trying so hard, then add in how forced all of that is, then all you can do is wait til she sits her ass down somewhere and catch her breath. Besides desperate, that woman is cray cray. I really see her having a Mariah Carey type of break down in the future. I am a huge Mariah fan but it was apparent that once her talent and looks started to fade she was completely lost. The problem with women like them (Whitney too) is their parents only focus on nurturing the talents and gifts that will make their families rich instead of developing their young girls into mature, well adjusted women. The same premise applies to most star athletes as well.
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Post by Guest XXX on Oct 28, 2014 3:08:10 GMT
Honestly I think Beyonce has abused her sexuality and cannot confront what she has done and therefore disengages from it on a deeper level while pussy popping for the world to see. Like how old strippers or prostitutes end up just tired of it all and so jaded. She's been passed around for years, she's used sex to get hits etc etc. now being genuinely sexual holds no appeal to her. Another thought is that her sexuality development has been stunted by abuse. She often has a very juvenile sense of sexuality, like how teenage girls think their cleavage can move mountains. When in fact there's so much more to being sexy than having a great body. That why she's photoshopping thigh gaps and getting lipo'd to make them real. Abused girls are often hyper sexual. They learn quickly that their worth is in their body and to hell with the rest (mind, soul, etc etc) She gives off that vibe. Great comment and I totally understand what you're saying here. I also think another downfall is due to her being turned out a long time ago and at a very young age. There's just something about her that gives off a woman who may have been molested. But that's my opinion. Also, I might be in the minority but I do believe she is a victim of MK Ultra Beta Sex Slave Programming. Norma Jean aka Marilyn Monroe was this country's first well known victim of this kind of programming and I'll be damned if B hasn't been following the same manual as Marilyn Monroe. Working her way all the way to the White House, where she was passed around, used and abused mentally, emotionally, physically and especially sexually. Jay is B's handler, who is nothing more than her glorified pimp. Jay knows there's money in his "wife" being a whore. Whether on stage or in some VIP's bed. Any genuine qualities B once had... is no more. It has been purposely taken from her, in order to control her and create an obedient robot. So when she says she's the hardest working person she knows...she's right! I also think her world has been so very calculating to the point that SHE WAS TOLD WHEN SHE COULD BECOME A MOTHER. And if and when the time is right according to her true masters, she'll introduce to the world baby #2.
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