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Post by missy on Nov 8, 2014 0:34:24 GMT
This man's story in this article is the reason why I don't believe we should shelter our children from reality. They won't be prepared when reality bites. It's hard out there, kids gotta know this too, they have to be prepared for the idiots they'll come across in life. I think that it's very important to instill values, and prepare the world for your good little citizen and all, but we as parents must prepare them for this cold cruel world just the same. What happened to this little boy is mean and unfair, BUT, if he was prepared for possibilities such as this one, then he wouldn't have taken it as hard. I know it was very hurtful for his father, because he was helpless. Go in the hood and call a child a n***er, and just sit back and watch the show, those kids stay prepared, not all, but a good percent ain't gonna take that. Can't shelter the kids, not these days, it's too dangerous. Anyhow, good article, a lil lengthy but try to check it out guys. www.washingtonpost.com/posteverything/wp/2014/11/06/i-taught-my-black-kids-that-their-elite-upbringing-would-protect-them-from-discrimination-i-was-wrong/
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Post by eljjai on Nov 9, 2014 5:10:04 GMT
This is a very interesting read. While I'm not American I have not escaped incidents of racism. I remember in sixth grade I had a white female teacher who hated it that I was the cleverest girl or child in the class. She would mark my work down all the time, she would accuse me of trying to copy this other white girl's tests when it was the whit girl who was copying me. I used to try and hide my work from that girl only to have the teacher accuse me of copying.
It happened again in high school with an indian teacher. And unfortunately for me, this teacher was marking my final coursework. She marked me down and there were such indiscrepancies between my exams (which were marked abroad) and my coursework which was marked by her. sadly it was this subject that would shape my future career and I hate that that slightly lower grade is on my records.
My mum also used to try and shelter me but after the primary school incident I toughened up really fast. I think for my children as much as I would want to preserve their innocence I think it's best they are fully aware of what is going on in the world.
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