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Post by belladonna1983 on Feb 2, 2015 11:33:32 GMT
So sad.
Don't get me wrong, I feel bad for her and I honestly do hope she gets it together...but good grief, there are people who lose parents every day, who don't have two pennies to rub together, yet they find a way to pull it together and move forward.
With all the money and people at her dispense who could help her (I mean they even have Iyanla) just what is the issue?
I honestly feel she needs less pity at this time, and someone there giving her TOUGH LOVE to save her life.
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Post by nicki on Feb 2, 2015 14:51:01 GMT
Thank you. My mom keeps telling me I'm cold for saying the same thing. The problem with Bobbi is she was given too much money but not enough parental guidance. If she makes it, no one will still be able to help her unless she actually listens to the advice of people who genuinely care about her. I would be killed for writing this elsewhere but I have the same concern Blue will turn out the same as Bobbi. The similarity between their parents and their upbringings is pretty uncanny.
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Post by backup26 on Feb 2, 2015 16:35:50 GMT
The child has been depressed for some time and it doesn't help that she's surrounded by fame/money leeches. She needed a good mentor after Whitney passed. It's crazy how everyone is saying pray for her, yet not too long ago they were laughing at her and talking about her like a dog. I read that she was trying to make her own way into the entertainment industry by making music, but the people that promised to help her out turned their back on her.... All that can take a toll on someone's mind. I hope she gets better, even though they say its hopeless. Its in God's hands now, and if he allows her another chance she will be a living testimony. She needs to surround herself with people who really want to see her succeed.
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Post by eljjai on Feb 2, 2015 20:31:57 GMT
Bobbi Kristina never stood a chance to be honest. She was screwed from the word go. She hd very little chance of turning out normal. So this was inevitable. The poor child never stood a chance. She also seems to be a naturally fragile kind, easily manipulated, needy kind. Nick Gordon saw that and latched on to it.
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Post by belladonna1983 on Feb 2, 2015 21:18:10 GMT
Y'all from what I hear, even if she makes it, things are grim...
And I also saw "her estranged husband"..........how the HELL are they estranged when they just got married???
#leech
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Post by belladonna1983 on Feb 2, 2015 21:23:29 GMT
God rest her soul, and I know she loved BK, but I blame Whitney.
Yes, blame Whitney, I do.
Because this is what happens when as mothers, we dont pay attention to
1. The examples we are to our children. 2. EQUIPPING our children with their own set of survival skills. Whitney spoiled the hell out of Bobbi K, to the point the poor child cant function without her.
This is why I strive to not only set an example for my baby girl, but also make her self sufficient...what if I'm no longer here? I dont want her to crumble and wither away. I want my child to THRIVE even after I'm dead and gone!
Just think of what Bobbi coulda been! Just using her mother's name alone....Whitney may have had debts, but let's be real, Bobbi Kris was left with more than most of us had at 18 years old....utilizing that, and a good support network (which she does seem to lack..grandma is weak) and her mothers' name, there arent too many institutions of higher learning, or industries that wouldnt have taken her under their wing and she could have been a success..
Screw being a singer/entertainer - I'm talking about if Bobbi Kris would have applied herself, went to school or started her own business (again, I repeat, HER MOTHER'S NAME ALONE could have broken her into some major fields and/or associations to get herself going).
Man, I just see the mounds and mounds of potential just wasted.
THE TRAGEDY OF BEING YOUR CHILD'S BEST FRIEND VERSUS BEING THEIR PARENT.
And I dont mean, a relationship where your child cant talk to you and relate to you...that's different...I'm talking about parents who spoil their child, coddle their child into crippling them, no discipline, show their child all their bad habits, etc.....
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Post by missy on Feb 2, 2015 23:01:16 GMT
I agree with all the comments, it doesn't look good though, I've worked with patients on life support due to drowning or attempting to hang themselves, can't say I've ever witnessed anyone walk away and be okay, but God is big, it's just sad that no one cared enough to do a "forced" intervention, this situation really called for one.
I'm concerned because;
-This "boy" stands to get EVERYTHING, by default, because Bobbi K had no will. Even if she lives in a vegetative state, he will be the one overseeing her care, I don't know if it's true, but this girl is said to be worth 100 million, thanks to her mother, he's not gonna care about her well being in such an event.
-why didn't he call 911 and hv them enroute when he said he got the call from her informing him she was gonna commit suicide? He waited until him and his friend got there. I'm thinking he had to clean up a bit, since cops said they found no drugs.
-did he care enough to follow the directions for CPR and perform CPR correctly, and nonstop until help arrived? The window allowed for the brain to be without oxygen is very small, 4 minutes! So the time of him getting her call, and his arrival to where she was....then calling 911, had to be longer that 4 minutes. Then EMS arrived, and performed "proper" BLS, finally enroute to the hospital.....a hell of a lot of time had passed.
I hear police have opened up a homicide investigation already. There was an argument the night before the incident, the weird tweet from her, "I'm on my own" or something to that effect. All my instincts tells me that Nick Gordon plays a huge part in this "accident!"
This is just a horrible, horrible situation.
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Post by nicki on Feb 2, 2015 23:15:56 GMT
It seems to me what they're doing now is keeping her alive until her estate can be straightened out. It sounds morbid but it needs to be done in order to ensure Nick doesn't get everything Whitney worked hard for.
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Post by belladonna1983 on Feb 3, 2015 0:39:24 GMT
It seems to me what they're doing now is keeping her alive until her estate can be straightened out. It sounds morbid but it needs to be done in order to ensure Nick doesn't get everything Whitney worked hard for. Wow really? Haven't checked the news in a while..,damn
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Post by missy on Feb 3, 2015 5:58:59 GMT
It seems to me what they're doing now is keeping her alive until her estate can be straightened out. It sounds morbid but it needs to be done in order to ensure Nick doesn't get everything Whitney worked hard for. I sure hope so....it's nice to hear something can possibly be done, to keep his hands outta the pot.
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Post by Heidi on Feb 3, 2015 14:33:43 GMT
If she dies.To die the same way her mom did? Uncanny!
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Post by missy on Feb 4, 2015 6:12:40 GMT
They say Bobbi K's been moved from the hospital. abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/bobbi-kristina-brown-moved-north-fulton-hospital/story?id=28698415Of course she's no longer in the hospital. Because there's nothing more a hospital can do.......She's been moved to a SNFF....Something like.... if not a nursing home, because she's brain dead, and she will be requiring round the clock care. She's in diapers and she has a catheter to urinate in at all times, she can do NOTHING....NOTHING on her own at this point. She's on (or will be on) a mechanical diet, secondarily.... if she makes it over the initial tube feeding hump. (I pray she does). If she gets off those tube feeds, processed foods will be in the form of steak or ground meat in the texture of liver, to keep her bowels soft, soft bowels can pretty much remove themselves, she'll be in a coma state and can't remove solid stool on her own. Coma patients can't poop hard or solid stools, so this processed mechanical diet will make all stools loose, like water, those soft foods will make them poop automatically, but in the beginning of her total care at the SNFF unit, she will be totally tube fed until she graduates to this mechanical diet, both tube feeds and the mechanical diet will help with these stools, this is all for an in depth look at what's really going on..what the tabloids won't tell you.... yes she'll need total care, like a baby, she'd be concidered a TCP (total care patient) I'm a former hospital employee, I'm aware. When we had TCP's we already knew, the night or our day was over, they are a lot of work, but I felt like it was always someone in there, inside of them, saying "thank you", ya know, inside that comatose body, though dr's say, "oh the lights are on, but no one's home", I don't believe it. I don't regret any of my TCP's!! I don't understand why it's such a secret with the family though, she's been surrounded by drugs, and was herself doing drugs, ya know.....lets just be honest, it was no secret when anyone kept up with her on IG or Twitter and she'd show all the "haters" that she was gonna do whatever she wanted with her "boo", drugs & alcohol included, I think, initially it may hv been recreational, but then at some point a dependance formed. Let's just be honest here. We can look over that now, because what's important at this point is to find out who left the drugs for her, to cause this "fatal accident".....NICK? The girl never got the chance to live. This is why I'm hurt.
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Post by belladonna1983 on Feb 4, 2015 8:12:35 GMT
^^thats what I was thinking the case was when they moved her...that it's because there's nothing that can be done....
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Post by belladonna1983 on Feb 4, 2015 8:15:45 GMT
And thanks for the insight.....it's also touching about the TCP's......and I totally agree about Bobbi K attitude too.
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Post by eljjai on Feb 5, 2015 7:49:52 GMT
Poor Bobbi, If she is unable to breathe on her own, and hooked up to machines? Is she really fighting for her life? Can she come back from that? Seriously speaking, is she able to recover from the point?
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Post by Guest** on Feb 7, 2015 18:12:40 GMT
In 7 days, Nick Gordon has gone from Bobbi Kristina Brown’s husband to Bobbi Kristina’s boyfriend to the dude who might have had something to do with why she was found unconscious in a bathtub. According to TMZ, Georgia police are currently conducting an investigation into the circumstances surrounding Bobbi Kristina’s seriously sad bathtub situation, and they’re starting to think Nick Gordon may have more to do with it than just performing CPR on her body while he waited for the paramedics to arrive.
Sources claim Bobbi and Nick had a history of getting violent with each other, and now the cops thinks something shady might have gone down an hour before she was found unconscious last Saturday. TMZ says that Max Lomas (the friend who found Bobbi Kristina in the tub) came over to their house at 9am and hung out with Nick. Max says he didn’t see Bobbi, but Nick told him she was in the bedroom. Some time later, Max says Nick wandered away, but he didn’t pay much attention to it.
About an hour after Max arrived, a cable guy showed up to the house, and because Nick was MIA, Max let him in. The cable guy told Max he needed access to the bedroom, so Max let him in, and that’s when he discovered Bobbi in the bathtub. Nick heard him screaming, ran to the bathroom, and started performing CPR on Bobbi. Max also claims Nick started cleaning up the house and getting rid of blood stains.
Police say they’re investigating both Nick and Max, and that Max has asked for immunity before he tells them anything else. Uh oh.
I honestly can’t think of a way Bobbi Kristina’s situation could get any worse. First her extended family redefines the word trash by bailing on her bedside vigil for a drunken spitting fight at a hotel, and now her former husband/current shady boyfriend might be the reason she’s in the hospital in the first place. Jesus and Whitney, take all the wheels.
From DListed
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Post by belladonna1983 on Feb 7, 2015 18:15:36 GMT
In 7 days, Nick Gordon has gone from Bobbi Kristina Brown’s husband to Bobbi Kristina’s boyfriend to the dude who might have had something to do with why she was found unconscious in a bathtub. According to TMZ, Georgia police are currently conducting an investigation into the circumstances surrounding Bobbi Kristina’s seriously sad bathtub situation, and they’re starting to think Nick Gordon may have more to do with it than just performing CPR on her body while he waited for the paramedics to arrive. Sources claim Bobbi and Nick had a history of getting violent with each other, and now the cops thinks something shady might have gone down an hour before she was found unconscious last Saturday. TMZ says that Max Lomas (the friend who found Bobbi Kristina in the tub) came over to their house at 9am and hung out with Nick. Max says he didn’t see Bobbi, but Nick told him she was in the bedroom. Some time later, Max says Nick wandered away, but he didn’t pay much attention to it. About an hour after Max arrived, a cable guy showed up to the house, and because Nick was MIA, Max let him in. The cable guy told Max he needed access to the bedroom, so Max let him in, and that’s when he discovered Bobbi in the bathtub. Nick heard him screaming, ran to the bathroom, and started performing CPR on Bobbi. Max also claims Nick started cleaning up the house and getting rid of blood stains. Police say they’re investigating both Nick and Max, and that Max has asked for immunity before he tells them anything else. Uh oh. I honestly can’t think of a way Bobbi Kristina’s situation could get any worse. First her extended family redefines the word trash by bailing on her bedside vigil for a drunken spitting fight at a hotel, and now her former husband/current shady boyfriend might be the reason she’s in the hospital in the first place. Jesus and Whitney, take all the wheels. From DListed Wow!!!
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Post by missy on Feb 11, 2015 8:54:34 GMT
It's almost that time, that I...and the world lost one of the greatest ever...My girl Whitney. A true artist. I've been listening to nothing but Whitney all night via Mp3, many great memories came flooding back! Sorry Bobby K. couldn't get it together. Troubles come hard. Blessings for the Houston/Brown family!
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